You spend the rest of your lives together, traveling the world, plundering ships, and learning about the bathing rituals of exotic lands.
The Pirate Code does not allow women to be on pirate ships because the women are a distraction to the crew and they bring bad luck. However, your new husband’s crew is more interested in the money to be had and never complains.
Centuries later, when the tricorne hat becomes popular and even forms a part of military uniforms, your descendants will brag about their brave, bold, adventurous great-great-great etc. grandmother who took a chance on a clean-smelling, fashion-forward stranger.